I'm sorry, I couldn't help myself with the pun in the title. Sometimes sex it funny. (And if its not then you could very well be doing it wrong.) Today I am going to talk about the taboo subject of anilingus or rimming. Some people love it, some hate it, hell some fear it! I know a few people who had never heard of it before I asked them. But I'm going to tell you all about it now, maybe you might decide to try it out soon.
The main thing about any sexual activity is trust and communication. If you would like to try something new then sit down with your partner and start talking, or nothing will ever happen! Going into these things with a open and positive attitude is a fab way to relax and get into the mood. And if your a little nervous or wound up over trying something new? Don't worry, everyone feels the same, its totally normal. Saying stop and trying again some other time is always an acceptable answer to give.
What the hell is rimming you ask? Simples. Rimming is orally simulating your partners anus. This could be licking, sucking, kissing or penetrating using your tongue. Both males and females have loads of fun receiving this - or even giving it. Thanks to the thousands of nerve endings around the anus, its like a party in your pants, just further back a bit!
Some people would never consider rimming as they might think its only a gay sexual activity to do and I can tell you that no, that is not true at all. There are also those niggling concerns you might have over hygiene and the possibility of catching an STI from it. Hygiene is important in general, especially when your about to get down and dirty with your partner under the covers. Why not make showering before that part of foreplay? Or if your a 'I shower alone, thank you very much!!' type of person then a quick 10 minutes in the shower before things start getting hot and heavy is the perfect thing. And your already naked, bonus points guys! If you are preforming this on a woman make sure that this is the last thing you do in sex/foreplay. Or if you just can't get enough of her, go wash your mouth and hands before continuing on. Transferring bacteria from the anus to the vagina is not good and can cause health issues.
As for STI's, there is always the risk of catching things any time you decide to have sex. Using dental dams or cutting open a condom as another form of dam is the best solution for protection. Dental dams can sometimes be tricky to get your hands on and if your like me, even the thought of cutting up condoms is horrifying to you, then hello kitchen supplies! Grab some cling film and get back into that bedroom. Adding lots of lube against the anus before using the dams will add pleasure too.
Next thing on the list is the actual event, the tongue to ass moment. Lying on your stomach with your legs wide open or on your hands and knees with your bottom in the air is the easiest way to let your partner access everything. Everyone naturally has a little hair growing around their anus, so if this is getting in the way spread those cheeks and get in there! If your feeling really confident you could introduce a vibrator or bullet against the anus to add serious sensations.
Enjoy, have fun and try to keep quiet! x
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